Things I love ...part 1 Basement

The flow of our basement is very unique for a 1900 house. Mostly because it has tall 9 foot ceilings. Most are too small to have a livable space. The main living are flow into the bathroom and 4th non-conforming bedroom. I love having a guest suite, especially now with a crying infant!

 

• sturdy, dark fixtures. The brushed look is my favorite .

 

I never liked the wall color down here. A little too much yellow tone in the brown. 

But Love:

• my HE washer and dryer 

• the dark wood of the sink

I have always loved this door. It leads to out furnace room. Which actually has enough space to store some of Brian's tools. But it's a warm color with a nice handle. 

Love

• extra cabinet space! Not sure why they didn't just make it all cabinets? But it's nice to have storage

I've also enjoyed the tile floor. No carpet in any of the bathrooms. I hate carpet in bathrooms!!

Guest BEDROOM-

In desperate need of DIYing a headboard 

 

Lets start from the ground up so to speak. I want to record all the things I love about this place if we are going to be moving soon. Plus keep all the ideas for our fixer upper. So here we go...

For a 113 year old home our basement amazing! It's a great space and has been an amazing guest suite for countless friends and family. 

I never loved the brown that the walls were. Too much yellow tone in the brown. But I do love how warm it always felt down here. Also, the baseboards, trim, and cabinets are the standard pine color. Not horrible but not my favorite. The cabinets also had GOLD (sick, nasty, gross) cheaply handles and knobs. We never got around to changing those. NO gold anywhere in the new house! 

Built ins are a must!! They are such great space savers! I like the neutral carpets. Another must in the recessed lighting.  There are ton of dimmer switches through out the house. It is wonderful to have in the TV room. In the bathroom - all the bathrooms - have timed fans and lights.  Who knows why but they used a vent to cover up something on the ceiling.

 

All dressed up

This is my favorite picture of te house from last fall. I took it one of the first days we brought E home to show her her first home!!

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What a weekend! We repainted the garage, porch, shed and play set. We had a blast even though it was non stop. My dad spent Saturday helping us and E napped like a champ in-between being adorable and CRUISiNG! We finished the weekend by having some neighbors an friends over to BBQ and let the kids play in the pool. Perfect summer night. I love my neighbors and if we do end up selling will miss them. It takes a village to raise children and I really feel like I have that on this block.

They look new! They used to be all white. Now they match the house. My love for all what a new coat of paint can do abounds! The Olympic outdoor paint we used on the play set covered the old warn wood and now it looks like new to. For a little extra pop we spray painted the hard wear to match the green swings. Also spray painted the rod iron on the entry stairs. They look so much better shiny black rather than spotted with wear and rust. Why didn't we do these things 5 years ago?

The ToDo List is still long but it's coming along. We had such a great time working as a team this weekend. Of course we had the inevitable "i think we should paint it this color " fight. But we got to practice resolving conflict maturely. Something's we are pretty good at after 7 years but hey! In the middle of Lowes on a holiday weekend, tired, hungry and a little one getting bored....that'll test the best of marriages! 

I have too big concerns about doing this

1. That it would consume our lives and not allow us to be social and intentional about relationships

2. Health hazards for E

To the first- this weekend was a good reminder that we can invite people in. Friends came to help paint and Brian got to catch up with them. We took a break to eat dinner and had a wonderful 3 hours with friends. B is patching a ceiling in the living room and all our furniture is displaced and tarpped ...bc of this we were able to have "baby races" between the two crawlers . Hospitality is not about  things or perfect large  rooms it's about opening our "homes, hearts, and our lives to others in order to develop loving relationships".

To the second - health hazards for E. we will be doing extensive research about remodeling with a little one before doing anything. I foresee many nights an Grandma's during the worst of it.

The Walk Through

The realtor came and loved our home! Of course! What's not to love? Well a few things.

- paint front poach.
- fix a falling gutter

Really that was it. Touch up's here and there. Little things that you let go. She loved it so much and kept gushing about how great it was that it gave me second thoughts. I like living in a place that others desire.  B's to do list is a mile long. So is mine. We will email her on Monday with what we decide to list and then we are off.... It's hard not knowing where we are going!! And the realtor seemed to think that it would sell quick! Like we should start to look for houses as soon as we list.  I guess that is the ideal though right? She wants to do a open house in the first two weeks! So this weekend is a power push to get things done. I'm overwhelmed.

Feeling overwhelmed leaves to waves of doubt. Mostly because I like my large home. I like having a place where guests have their  own bed and bath. I love well....I am going to post the detailed list floor by floor soon. Friends my age are buying the "forever" house. They are moving west - suburbia!! Out to pasture :) We are downsizing. I love the city and living in a mixed income and racial neighborhood. I enjoy being pushed out of my comfort zone when E and I go to the park. The families there are nothing like the ones I grew up with.  I am wresting with the fact that we are doing something counter cultural. Choosing to live below our means - instead of stretching so we can keep up with everybody else. Also, I guess as much as I shun the 'burbs somehow I always figured you end up at a place like my parents. Granted our parents moved into those houses when they were 40 after working for 20 years. How are young families our age getting those house now? At 26 buying a house on a lake? We are guilty too. Our first home was a four bedroom, three bath turn of the century beauty. Granted it wasn't in the country or on a lake but we still bypassed the starter home and working hard for 20 years to get our dream home. This new home will benefit us financial in the short and long but....I'm sure going to miss this place

The house we are moving into is the house for the next 5 years. Not forever. But WOW! is this bringing out some struggles for me. I think most women long to have a beautiful home and be a gracious host. Have a home where people love to come and hang out. My ideal of hospitality has been challenged in the past and is again. I always think back to in high school the friends house we loved hanging out at the most was actually the smallest. It was just the most warm and her mother was the best. Hospitality isn't about things or décor - it's about warmth and love. That moves with us. We can still host a friend's surprise birthday party. it just might be a little more crowded now! I will wrestle with feeling like I have to explain these things to everybody. Give them our back story and explain away why we are doing what we are. I am proud of our decision. I know it is the best for us. And at the end of the day it's excited. But the road getting there going to be full of open houses, and long days.

When I feel myself starting to have a pity party I think of those beautiful kids in Haiti. Half starved. Or the mother who couldn't eat the peanut butter we offered her because she hadn't in so long it would cause her to vomit. I think about trying to sit down and explain to her my anxiety over the last two days. As I sit in air conditioning on a down bed. My refrigerator overflowing from my trip to Costco. Maybe I could get over myself? My feeling are worth feeling and dealing with but at the end of the day I need someone to smack me and give me perspective. This move will free up so much more in our budget to GIVE!!

Live simply so others may simply live...

Ella Moment:.. I blew Ella a kiss tonight at dinner. She proceed to make a "kiss" lip smacking noise. To do this she sucks in her lips so she looks like an old lady without dentures. Cutest things she has done yet!!  We gave each other kisses back and forth almost a dozen times. Pretty sure that can happen anywhere our happy family is together!

it's about to start...

Tomorrow a realtor is coming to our home. Our home is beautiful, big and full of memories! Why in the world are we choosing to move? We love our neighbors and everything about our home and yard. But, we have had a desire for many years to fix up a small home. Not a total gut or a fast flip. But buy something small, that needs some work and make it adorable and our own.  Basically we want the house you see in a cute neighborhood and think..."Well thats the ugliest house around here.that would be sk cute wirh a little work!"

We want to have a smaller mortgage payment, not because we have to, but because we should. We want to be happier with less. plus we are becoming DIY dorks and could not be more excited about learning all the things along the way. It's going to be hard work and balancing having a life with what we want to do may prove to be a challenge. Did I mention we have an adorable, giggly, 9 month old that we can't get enough of!? But here we go....Ideally we would be in our smaller home in a couple months!!